4 Toughest words a guy would hear in his life...

What are the toughest 4 words you ever hear as a guy when it comes to relationships? If you ignore statements associated with death and extreme financial misfortune, i think the list would probably include "I think i'm gay", "She's dating someone else", "What happened last night?" and the ever so expensive, "I think i'm pregnant". However, none of them are used as often or have devastated more lives (especially those of nerds) ..

"I like you...but"

This statement, which would even make god say "Fuck it, i'm leaving it to Satan"

Here are the ways women fill these blanks and what they actually mean.

Only as a friend = Here you lower your standards and find someone in your league

I don't want to ruin the friendship = Here you realize you already ruined the friendship

I'm not ready to make the emotional commitment = I don't think you are worthy of sleeping with me

The distance between us is too much and it wont work out = I don't care enough to want to make it work out and I am not confident in front of a webcam or Texting..

I was promised to someone as a child (Okay i made this one up - but it'll be hilarious if someone came up with this - alongwith I'm a Manglik and you are not)

Every guy gets the "I like you...but" line atleast once in his life. I have as well (Guess which one) and without a doubt it is the most pissing off, annoying, humiliatingly ridiculous moment of embarassment that one can ever experience. If I were to just do a sample survey of all the nerds in my school or college who got this line I am sure the results will be startling.

I personally feel it was one of the single largest reasons that so many chaps never managed to become more confident later in life, deal with co-ed situations more effectively and distinguish their brains from their sexual desires.

And for those who are lucky, they get it even when they grow up - as the "Don't call us, we'll call you" line. (It was invented by the "I like you...but" inventors cousin). Of-course, you never really get the call. But you try anyway just thinking maybe some good will come off it.

So whats the solution? I don't know. May be you guys can help me finding a solution for this..

Waiting for your replies and comments ..

Rajan